The City That Never Sleeps
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.




posted : Wednesday, December 30, 2009
title : Goodbye, or not
Never been easy to say goodbye. And I haven't been particularly good at it. Goodbye conflicting emotions. I hate that.

I choose to believe, to trust. I know you meant well, so point taken! You know I still love you despite anything you've said (:

Came across this, thought this might be a little something to share.

"If you get strictly criticized, you should not complain nor sad, but should grateful to your critics, they make us see our own deficiency. Criticism based on caring, do you think about the stranger will criticize you? The criticism should be accepted modestly, correct mistakes if you have made any and guard against them if you have not.

In this life, you must suffer a lot of impolite criticism. Among them perhaps some really point out the deficiencies, showing your really condition. Others' just totally creates something out of nothing, to attack you personally. Sometimes, criticizes is a mask for compliment.

If you want to be outstanding and better, the best way is by accepting criticism. Because others' criticism will tell you, a kind of condition you are now, and what you shoud change. In fact, the growth of an outstanding person, is a process of accepting criticism and self-perfection from time to time."